Remember where we come from, Obi-Wan. We've undergone decades of training and lecture in how to repress and release emotion. That isn't a mindset easily changed, despite your willingness to do so.

[He avoids delving into his many disagreements with how the Jedi Order handled matters of the heart. Obi-Wan already knows all too well how Qui-Gon feels about such things, and there's no need to beat a dead space horse.]

This is an arduous road, like the many others you've already traveled. Don't rush your progress and allow yourself the time to think about how you feel and why you feel that way.

Only then will you be able to heal. Only then will Satine truly become a source of courage and rather than only pain.